{"id":2537,"date":"2025-04-27T00:05:59","date_gmt":"2025-04-27T00:05:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/?p=2537"},"modified":"2026-10-20T18:07:33","modified_gmt":"2026-10-20T18:07:33","slug":"italian-birthday-conversation-phrases","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/italian-birthday-conversation-phrases\/","title":{"rendered":"Talking About Birthdays in Italian: Questions and Phrases"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Knowing how to say \u201chappy birthday\u201d is only the start. This page gives you the questions and answers you need to talk about birthdays in Italian: when it is, how old someone is turning, and how to invite people and thank them. If you are looking for the greetings themselves, see <a href=\"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/happy-birthday-to-you-in-italian\/\">how to say happy birthday in Italian<\/a>.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img src=\"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/quande-il-tuo-compleanno-card.webp\" alt=\"Confetti card that reads \u201cQuand\u2019\u00e8 il tuo compleanno?\u201d, meaning \u201cwhen is your birthday?\u201d\" class=\"wp-image-23364\" width=\"1200\" height=\"630\" loading=\"eager\" fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/quande-il-tuo-compleanno-card.webp 1200w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/quande-il-tuo-compleanno-card-300x158.webp 300w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/quande-il-tuo-compleanno-card-1024x538.webp 1024w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/quande-il-tuo-compleanno-card-768x403.webp 768w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/quande-il-tuo-compleanno-card-800x420.webp 800w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/quande-il-tuo-compleanno-card-150x79.webp 150w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/quande-il-tuo-compleanno-card-696x365.webp 696w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/quande-il-tuo-compleanno-card-1068x561.webp 1068w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<h2>Asking when someone\u2019s birthday is<\/h2>\n<div style=\"overflow-x:auto;margin:0 0 22px\"><table style=\"width:100%;border-collapse:collapse;min-width:520px\"><thead><tr><th style=\"text-align:left;padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:2px solid #c9c9c9;font-size:15px\">English<\/th><th style=\"text-align:left;padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:2px solid #c9c9c9;font-size:15px\">Italian<\/th><th style=\"text-align:left;padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:2px solid #c9c9c9;font-size:15px\">How to say it<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">When is your birthday?<\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\"><strong>Quand\u2019\u00e8 il tuo compleanno?<\/strong><\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">KWAN-deh eel TOO-oh kom-pleh-AHN-noh<\/td><\/tr><tr><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">When is your birthday? (formal)<\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\"><strong>Quand\u2019\u00e8 il Suo compleanno?<\/strong><\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">KWAN-deh eel SOO-oh kom-pleh-AHN-noh<\/td><\/tr><tr><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">My birthday is on 24 June.<\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\"><strong>Il mio compleanno \u00e8 il 24 giugno.<\/strong><\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">eel MEE-oh kom-pleh-AHN-noh eh eel vehn-tee-KWAHT-troh JOO-nyoh<\/td><\/tr><tr><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">My birthday is in May.<\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\"><strong>Il mio compleanno \u00e8 a maggio.<\/strong><\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">eel MEE-oh kom-pleh-AHN-noh eh ah MAHD-joh<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/div>\n<p>Dates are written day first, with <em>il<\/em> before the number: <em>il 24 giugno<\/em>. For the first of the month Italian uses <em>il primo<\/em>: <em>il primo maggio<\/em>. Months are written with a small letter: <em>gennaio, febbraio, marzo, aprile, maggio, giugno, luglio, agosto, settembre, ottobre, novembre, dicembre<\/em>.<\/p>\n<h2>Asking and saying age<\/h2>\n<div style=\"overflow-x:auto;margin:0 0 22px\"><table style=\"width:100%;border-collapse:collapse;min-width:520px\"><thead><tr><th style=\"text-align:left;padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:2px solid #c9c9c9;font-size:15px\">English<\/th><th style=\"text-align:left;padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:2px solid #c9c9c9;font-size:15px\">Italian<\/th><th style=\"text-align:left;padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:2px solid #c9c9c9;font-size:15px\">How to say it<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">How old are you?<\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\"><strong>Quanti anni hai?<\/strong><\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">KWAN-tee AHN-nee AH-ee<\/td><\/tr><tr><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">I am thirty.<\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\"><strong>Ho trent\u2019anni.<\/strong><\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">oh tren-TAHN-nee<\/td><\/tr><tr><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">How old are you turning?<\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\"><strong>Quanti anni compi?<\/strong><\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">KWAN-tee AHN-nee KOM-pee<\/td><\/tr><tr><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">I am turning thirty.<\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\"><strong>Compio trent\u2019anni.<\/strong> \/ <strong>Ne compio trenta.<\/strong><\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">KOM-pyoh tren-TAHN-nee \/ neh KOM-pyoh TREN-tah<\/td><\/tr><tr><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">What year were you born? (casual)<\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\"><strong>Di che anno sei?<\/strong><\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">dee keh AHN-noh SEH-ee<\/td><\/tr><tr><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">I was born in 1990. (casual)<\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\"><strong>Sono del novanta.<\/strong><\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">SOH-noh dehl noh-VAHN-tah<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/div>\n<p>Italian says \u201cI have thirty years\u201d (<em>ho trent\u2019anni<\/em>), not \u201cI am thirty\u201d, so the verb is <em>avere<\/em> (\u201cto have\u201d), as in <em>Ho trent\u2019anni<\/em>.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img src=\"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/quanti-anni-compi-card.webp\" alt=\"Geometric pop card that reads \u201cQuanti anni compi?\u201d, meaning \u201chow old are you turning?\u201d\" class=\"wp-image-23365\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1080\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/quanti-anni-compi-card.webp 1080w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/quanti-anni-compi-card-300x300.webp 300w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/quanti-anni-compi-card-1024x1024.webp 1024w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/quanti-anni-compi-card-150x150.webp 150w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/quanti-anni-compi-card-768x768.webp 768w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/quanti-anni-compi-card-420x420.webp 420w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/quanti-anni-compi-card-696x696.webp 696w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/quanti-anni-compi-card-1068x1068.webp 1068w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<h2>The verb \u201ccompiere\u201d: to turn a year older<\/h2>\n<p>Italian does not say \u201cturn thirty\u201d with the verb <em>to be<\/em> or <em>to turn<\/em>. It uses <em>compiere<\/em>, which means \u201cto complete\u201d. In the present tense:<\/p>\n<ul><li><em>io<\/em> <strong>compio<\/strong> (KOM-pyoh): <em>Compio trent\u2019anni a giugno.<\/em> I turn thirty in June.<\/li><li><em>tu<\/em> <strong>compi<\/strong> (KOM-pee): <em>Quando compi gli anni?<\/em> When do you have your birthday?<\/li><li><em>lui \/ lei<\/em> <strong>compie<\/strong> (KOM-pyeh): <em>Mia sorella compie diciotto anni domani.<\/em> My sister turns eighteen tomorrow.<\/li><li><em>noi<\/em> <strong>compiamo<\/strong> (kom-PYAH-moh): <em>Compiamo gli anni lo stesso giorno!<\/em> We have our birthdays on the same day!<\/li><li><em>loro<\/em> <strong>compiono<\/strong> (KOM-pyoh-noh): <em>I miei genitori compiono gli anni a maggio.<\/em> My parents have their birthdays in May.<\/li><\/ul>\n<p>The past form is <em>ho compiuto<\/em>: <em>Ho compiuto trent\u2019anni ieri.<\/em> (\u201cI turned thirty yesterday.\u201d) The expression <em>compiere gli anni<\/em> is the everyday way to say \u201cto have a birthday\u201d. In Treccani, the verb is explained with the example <em>compio oggi vent\u2019anni<\/em> (\u201cI turn twenty today\u201d) (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.treccani.it\/vocabolario\/compiere\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Treccani: compiere<\/a>).<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img src=\"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/grazie-mille-card.webp\" alt=\"Balloon card that reads \u201cGrazie mille!\u201d, meaning \u201cthank you very much\u201d\" class=\"wp-image-23366\" width=\"1200\" height=\"630\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/grazie-mille-card.webp 1200w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/grazie-mille-card-300x158.webp 300w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/grazie-mille-card-1024x538.webp 1024w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/grazie-mille-card-768x403.webp 768w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/grazie-mille-card-800x420.webp 800w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/grazie-mille-card-150x79.webp 150w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/grazie-mille-card-696x365.webp 696w, https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/04\/grazie-mille-card-1068x561.webp 1068w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<h2>Invitations, gifts and thanks<\/h2>\n<div style=\"overflow-x:auto;margin:0 0 22px\"><table style=\"width:100%;border-collapse:collapse;min-width:520px\"><thead><tr><th style=\"text-align:left;padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:2px solid #c9c9c9;font-size:15px\">English<\/th><th style=\"text-align:left;padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:2px solid #c9c9c9;font-size:15px\">Italian<\/th><th style=\"text-align:left;padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:2px solid #c9c9c9;font-size:15px\">How to say it<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">Are you coming to my birthday party?<\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\"><strong>Vieni alla mia festa di compleanno?<\/strong><\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">VYEH-nee AHL-lah MEE-ah FEH-stah dee kom-pleh-AHN-noh<\/td><\/tr><tr><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">I got you a gift.<\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\"><strong>Ti ho preso un regalo.<\/strong><\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">tee oh PREH-zoh oon reh-GAH-loh<\/td><\/tr><tr><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">This is for you.<\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\"><strong>Questo \u00e8 per te.<\/strong><\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">KWEH-stoh eh pehr teh<\/td><\/tr><tr><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">You shouldn\u2019t have!<\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\"><strong>Non dovevi!<\/strong><\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">nohn doh-VEH-vee<\/td><\/tr><tr><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">Thank you very much!<\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\"><strong>Grazie mille!<\/strong><\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">GRAH-tsyeh MEEL-leh<\/td><\/tr><tr><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">Happy birthday! (reply: thanks)<\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\"><strong>Grazie!<\/strong><\/td><td style=\"padding:8px 10px;border-bottom:1px solid #e3e3e3;vertical-align:top;font-size:15px\">GRAH-tsyeh<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/div>\n<p>These phrases use the informal <em>tu<\/em>. With someone you address as <em>Lei<\/em>, change the verb: <em>Viene alla mia festa?<\/em> and <em>Questo \u00e8 per Lei.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Quick practice dialogue<\/h2>\n<blockquote><p>Quand\u2019\u00e8 il tuo compleanno? \u2014 Il mio compleanno \u00e8 il 24 giugno. Compio trent\u2019anni!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>Translation:<\/strong> When is your birthday? \u2014 My birthday is on 24 June. I\u2019m turning thirty!<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Vieni alla mia festa di compleanno sabato? \u2014 Certo! Ti ho preso un regalo.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>Translation:<\/strong> Are you coming to my birthday party on Saturday? \u2014 Of course! I got you a gift.<\/p>\n<h2>Common questions<\/h2>\n<h3>What does \u201ccompiere gli anni\u201d mean?<\/h3>\n<p>It means \u201cto have a birthday\u201d, literally \u201cto complete the years\u201d. <em>Quando compi gli anni?<\/em> is a natural way to ask when someone\u2019s birthday is.<\/p>\n<h3>Should \u201cbuon compleanno\u201d be capitalised?<\/h3>\n<p>Not in running text. Use a capital letter only at the start of a sentence. Days and months are also written with a small letter in Italian.<\/p>\n<h3>Which phrases are safe for beginners?<\/h3>\n<p><em>Buon compleanno!<\/em>, <em>Tanti auguri!<\/em>, <em>Quand\u2019\u00e8 il tuo compleanno?<\/em> and <em>Grazie!<\/em> will carry you through most situations.<\/p>\n<h2>More on this site<\/h2>\n<ul><li><a href=\"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/happy-birthday-to-you-in-italian\/\">How to say happy birthday in Italian (with pronunciation)<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/italian-birthday-wishes-and-messages\/\">Italian birthday wishes and messages, with translations<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/italian-birthday-traditions-and-song\/\">Italian birthday traditions, name days and the birthday song<\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n<h2>Sources<\/h2>\n<p>Treccani, <em>Vocabolario<\/em>: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.treccani.it\/vocabolario\/compiere\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">compiere<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.treccani.it\/vocabolario\/compleanno\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">compleanno<\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How to ask when someone\u2019s birthday is, how old they are turning, and how to answer in Italian, with pronunciation hints and the verb compiere.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":23364,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[194,195],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2537","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-art","category-wishing"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2537","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2537"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2537\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23371,"href":"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2537\/revisions\/23371"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/23364"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2537"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2537"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/all4quotes.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2537"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}